I was listening to a man speak briefly at a discussion meeting. He was quite an accomplished person, a physician and a leader currently in the field of addiction treatment. He said that all his life he had followed the rules. He had he said colored inside the lines. Church, school, professional life, relationships w others, he had always more or less done the right thing but had become an alcoholic anyway. He accepted that and he was at present doing what he needed to do to...